Today, I want to share with you some solid life advice, especially for my female friends. These suggestions are based on the following ten principles. I hope you can benefit from them. 1. Reduce dependence on emotional needs. Emotional needs are one of the basic needs of human beings, but over-reliance on emotions will make you lose yourself and fall into irrational behavior and decision-making. You should learn to be independent and self-loving, and not to pin your happiness on others, but to find your own interests and goals to make yourself fulfilled and happy. 2. Stingy trust. Trust is one of the most important factors in social interaction, but it is also the most easily abused and betrayed. You should not trust others easily, but must have certain vigilance and judgment to avoid being deceived or harmed. You can test the credibility of others through observation, verification, questioning, etc., but be careful not to be too suspicious or offend others. 3. Cultivation of passive charm. Passive charm refers to the personal image and temperament you display in social interactions. It can make you more attractive and influential in social interactions, and it can also make it easier for you to gain the like and respect of others. You can improve your passive charm by practicing speaking, walking, standing, etc. You can also increase your passive charm by creating a personality that suits you. 4. Learn to save. Savings refers to the knowledge, thinking, resume, academic qualifications, skills, etc. you have accumulated in various aspects. They can make you more independent and powerful, have the confidence to face the world, and break away from the status of a dependent. You should continue to learn, practice, reflect, and improve to enhance your strength and competitiveness. 5. Get good dopamine through exercise. Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that makes you feel happy and content, as well as more motivated and creative. Exercise is an effective way to obtain dopamine. It can keep you physically and mentally healthy and have the physical and mental foundation to face various challenges. You should regularly engage in exercises that suit you, such as running, swimming, yoga, etc. 6. The value of cultivating expertism. Expertism refers to your ability or achievements beyond ordinary people in a certain field or aspect. It can make you more authoritative and credible in social circles, and can also give you a greater sense of accomplishment and pride. You should find areas or aspects that you are good at or interested in, and work hard to achieve things that others cannot do. Whether it’s cooking, painting, writing, programming, etc., as long as you have enough enthusiasm and concentration, you can become an expert. 7. Get rid of the habit of blaming yourself. Self-blame is a negative emotional reaction that can lead you into self-denial and self-loathing, affecting your self-confidence and self-esteem. You should learn to replace self-blame with positive review, that is, use an objective and positive attitude to analyze your behavior and results, find problems and ways to improve, instead of endlessly blaming and torturing yourself. 8. Learn to be aggressive. Aggression refers to the initiative and fighting spirit you show in social interactions. It can give you more dominance and voice in social interactions, and it can also make it easier for you to get what you want. You should learn to express your opinions and needs in a reasonable and moderate way, without fear of offending or offending others, and without compromising or giving in easily. 9. Learn to keep confidentiality. Confidentiality refers to a principle and etiquette that you abide by in social interactions. It can make you feel more secure and trustful in social interactions, and can also help you avoid unnecessary troubles and risks. You should learn to use diaries and other methods to satisfy your desire to talk, and do not disclose your own or other people’s privacy to others at will, and do not trust others’ promises or requirements for your privacy. 10. Slow down on decision-making. Decision-making is an important ability that affects the quality of your life and future direction. You should not rush into making big decisions, but slow down and think about the possible consequences and risks, and whether you can withstand and cope with them. You can assist your decision-making through consultation, investigation, simulation, etc., but in the end you still have to rely on your own judgment and choice. The above are ten reliable life suggestions provided for you. I hope it can help you become more outstanding and happy in social circles. If you have any questions or suggestions, please leave a message in the comment area. Thank you for reading!
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